Sex Checklist – Sex Checklist: BDSM Edition – NAT – A – 0013 – 5-15-23 – Part 2
Now it’s time for Part 2 of the Sex Checklist, BDSM Edition! The first 11 questions on this list can be found in Part 1.
In the first part of the BDSM Edition, we explored some of the popular elements of bondage, discipline, sadism, & masochism, as well as dominance and submission. In Part Two we’re going to focus on one especially fun area of BDSM: Spanking!
Are you ready to find out how kinky you are?
Give yourself 1 point for each thing on the Sex Checklist that you have done.
Let’s continue the fun!
Section 2. Spank Me, I’ve Been Naughty!
11. Using your hand to give your partner a little love-tap on the ass is a fun & simple way to put the “discipline” in BDSM! Have you ever spanked a woman’s bottom with your hand for pleasure?
- Perhaps you’ve been a naughty boy! Have you ever let a woman punish you by spanking your bare ass with her hand?
- Let’s step it up a notch: everyone knows the fun part of BDSM is the tools & toys! Have you ever used a wooden paddle or spoon to spank your sub?
- Time to switch again! Have you ever been the one bent over as she uses a wooden paddle or spoon to punish you?
- Leather is one of the most highly associated fabrics with BDSM. It’s not only used for clothing but for many of the kinky tools we use! Have you ever used a leather tool to spank somebody?
- Have you ever been spanked with a leather tool or toy? This could be anything: a flogger, a dragon’s tongue, a cat-o-nine-tails, or even the classic whip!
That completes all the questions for the BDSM Edition of the Sex Checklist. Now add up all your points, and don’t forget to include your answers from Part 1!
0-5 Points – You might be new to the BDSM scene. Hey, we all gotta start somewhere! Furthermore, BDSM can be intimidating, but if you’re interested in exploring more, all it takes is a little research & mutual trust with your partner. Oh, and don’t forget to agree on a safe word!
6-10 Points- Pretty kinky! If you didn’t get as many points as you expected, then you probably lean towards being either a sub or a dom, not both. If you know what you like, that’s great! There’s everything to be proud of in knowing your limits and having a partner who respects them.
11-16 Points- Color me impressed! It is the mark of an excellent dom when they have tested the things they are going to do to their sub. Or perhaps you’re a “switch” who genuinely enjoys being both dominant and submissive, like me! Either way, you’re very kinky!
Thanks for taking part in my “BDSM Edition” Sex Checklist!
Remember BDSM is a very broad category of kink, and honestly, not something I could even begin to cover in one checklist!
Would you like to know what MY answers are? You can hear my answers to all the questions from both Parts 1 & 2 in my audio! You may think you know me well, but you might be surprised by the answers!
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