Sex Checklist – Sex Checklist: BDSM Edition – NAT – A – 0013 – 5-15-23 – Part 1
Just how kinky are you? Answer the questions in the “BDSM Edition” of the Sex Checklist to find out!
This is a steamy little game for you to think back on the many kinky things you’ve done, and perhaps even find some new things to try!
BDSM is an acronym that stands for a few different kinky things. The most familiar of these kinks are bondage, discipline, sadism, & masochism. However, dominance & submission are also used interchangeably and are widely regarded as a core element of the BDSM fetish. Whatever your kink is, BDSM is a way for you to explore those desires in a consensual way with someone you trust, without judgment. So how kinky are you? Let’s find out!
Give yourself 1 point for each thing on the Sex Checklist that you have done, and at the end, I will rate just how kinky you are!
Ready? Let’s play!
Section 1. BDSM Basics!
- Bondage is a basic element of BDSM, and one of the most classic forms of bondage is using handcuffs! They come in many styles: from the traditional, hard steel handcuffs, to softer, padded options for comfort. Have you ever used handcuffs on a woman in bed?
- Now for the REAL question: have you ever let yourself be handcuffed during sexy time?
- Being deprived of one of your senses can heighten your other senses. In BDSM, this means heightened pleasure! Have you ever blindfolded a woman to intensify her orgasms?
- Remember a core element in BDSM is dominance AND submission. So have you ever been the one wearing the blindfold to increase your sexual pleasure?
- An interesting factor of BDSM is that the sexual pleasure derived from it does not necessarily come from actions that are typically seen as “sexy” or “erotic”. Have you ever sucked or licked a woman’s less sexual body parts, such as her fingers, chin, toes, etc.?
- Time to “switch” it up! Have you ever let someone else suck/lick your less-than-naughty parts for sexual pleasure? This could also include their nose, elbows, soles, or back!
- Let’s not forget the biggest star of the bondage world: rope! From a simple handcuff tie to intricate shibari, the popularity of tying your partner up in rope has skyrocketed in the BDSM community! Have you tied your partner up in rope before?
- And for the kinky kicker: have you been the one tied up in rope before? This could be anything from a full-body tie, to simply letting your partner tie your hands to the bedpost!
- These next two questions are a little more on the wild side but still considered to be a standard of the BDSM community. Wearing a collar is a symbol of submission. Have you ever put a collar on your sub?
- Finally, have you ever been the submissive who wore a collar?
This completes the first part of the “BDSM Edition” Sex Checklist!
How many points do you have so far? Are you more or less kinky than you thought you were before you started?
Don’t worry, there’s still time to score more points before the results come in Part 2!
Would you like to know what MY answers are? You can hear my answers to all the questions from both Parts 1 & 2 in my audio now! If you enjoyed this checklist, be sure to check my other blogs for more!